Finding Real TPE Masters

I'm back at my Master's place after a disappointing weekend in Las Vegas, though I tried to make the most of it, after a very fun night at the Eagle in New York.

My house slave situation in Las Vegas was canceled abruptly because the Master I had planned to visit that weekend had a family emergency. Unfortunately for me, there was nothing I could do on such a short notice. I was already on my way to the airport. You can't cancel a flight under 24 hours from the flight, so I was not ready to throw away that money, but that meant I needed to spend additional funds on a hotel, whether it was in Las Vegas or New York. I mean, I could have just moved my flight to my Master earlier and make that a very long day, continuing on from Las Vegas to my Master's place. But I figured, since I was already landing in Las Vegas, I may as well take a peek. Now that I have, I probably won't be back. I'm not a fan, and that local Master handled the situation badly. It may be that there's nothing he could have done, but he could definitely have shown a little more care for his slave. A better man would have taken some responsibility for the predicament he put his slave in and found a way to express that, perhaps even offer advice on where to stay or what to do, if nothing else as a result of his cancellation.

Sorry to be a downer, but this brings up an important topic: the challenges of creating a real house slave situation or something like total power exchange (TPE) with a Master for a few days.  As much as I try to connect with Masters, it's become so much harder since the COVID-19 pandemic. The Master needs to be actually Dominant, not just a top; he needs to really be ready to control a slave outside of the bed (in case he has not taken in a house slave before); and he needs to be ready to give up a little privacy and invite a guest into his home, not to mention a stranger, for more than a hookup. A lot of guys have a hard time with that last point even with their friends, regardless of where they stand with BDSM.