Privacy & Reputation

I spend a lot of time promoting my reputation as a house slave fag. That's how I'd like fans to know me. Other subs can identify with me, or perhaps live vicariously through me. Doms enjoying my content might want to use me or another sub in the way I describe myself being used.

At the same time, I have a very serious reputation as a professional. I have a career of which I'm proud of too and I'm grateful that people appreciate my opinion and advice.

The problem is that people can find it hard to reconcile these two images. It might not do much harm if my kinky fans see exactly what kind of a nerd I am on my day job, because as slutty as I am, you probably already know I'm a very good boi. I drink piss but I keep it clean. I'll put on panties if ordered to, but my attire is usually suit-and-tie or boi next door.

It would be a far greater problem if my other circles knew about my kink. We all like to think that it's 2025 and no one should mind my sex life. But we know that they do. I managed to step out of the closet at the age of 20, in a somewhat different time, but kink has its own closet. Not to mention, that in some ways 2025 may be more conservative than 1999. In some circles attitudes have significantly improved, but on the other hand, hate crimes have gone up.

Moving on, let me focus on 5 issues to guide this post:

• How privacy & reputation are important to me
• How privacy & reputation are limiting me
• What could be possible if I didn't care about privacy & reputation
• Where have I compromised my privacy
• Being vigilant and uncompromising

Here goes.